Behavioral Pattern Detection

Language has patterns.
So does harm.

A behavior-based emotional abuse detector that sees what others miss โ€” gaslighting, DARVO, coercive control, escalation cycles.

Reflection tool, not a diagnostic service. No data stored or shared.

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Self-assessment
Is this abuse?
A checklist to help you see the pattern clearly.
Education
Understand abuse
Abuser profiles, DARVO, and what won't work.
Resources
Find help
Crisis lines, hotlines, and digital safety.
About
The science
How Tether works and who built it.
Relationship Pattern Analyzer
Powered by Applied Behavioral Linguistics
Your messages are not stored or shared. Analysis runs through Hugging Face's secure API. No identifying information is ever collected.
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Something's Off

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Don't Look Away

A training for people who know an abuser โ€” not the victim, the people around him. How to say something, how to sustain it, how to do it even when nothing changes.

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